What should I include in my living will?

While each living will is unique, there are a few features that every living will should include. First, you might choose to write a “standard direction” which states that you do not want your life to be prolonged unnecessarily if there is zero chance of survival. You should then go into specifics about individual treatments, such as dialysis or ventilation. Make sure to mention whether you would like your body or organs to be donated. 

In addition, you can choose whether you’d like to die at home and whether you would like to avoid invasive procedures. Finally, you can mention any religious or spiritual considerations that should be taken into account. Last but not least, you must sign your living will for it to be valid. Not only that, but other people must witness you signing the document and provide their own signatures. 

Who can help me get a living will?

An elder law attorney is the best choice for help with drafting a living will. While you do not need a lawyer to create a living will, they can help you avoid common mistakes while laying out all your concerns in a valid, proper manner. 

Are living wills popular?

Living wills are popular among all Americans – not just seniors. According to a recent study, living wills became more popular from 2005 to 2020. The current data shows that 72% of Americans aged 65 and older have living wills, while 52% of Americans between the ages of 50 and 64 have living wills. Despite this slight rise in popularity overall, living wills are declining among younger individuals. 

What happens when you decide against CPR in your living will?

If you state that you do not wish to receive CPR in your living will, medical professionals will not try to perform CPR on you. This means that you will be allowed to pass away naturally if you stop breathing or your heart stops beating. People often choose to refuse CPR in their living wills because they are approaching the end of their life, and they do not wish to continue with a condition that shows no sign of improving. In other words, they are choosing to leave this world on their own terms. 

What’s the difference between a DNI order and a DNR order?

DNI stands for “Do Not Intubate,” and a DNI order prevents medical professionals from placing the patient on a ventilator. On the other hand, DNR stands for “Do Not Resuscitate,” and it means that medical professionals cannot perform CPR on the patient. Both are similar concepts, and these orders allow patients to choose the circumstances of their own passing without unnecessary discomfort and pain. 

How will medical professionals know about my living will?

The best approach is to make sure that your family doctor, your lawyer, and your family members have access to your living will. In many cases, medical professionals will access your living will through your medical records – although they may need special permission to access these files. 

How is a living will different compared to a normal will?

A living will is not the same as a normal will because it covers different areas of estate planning. The official term for a “normal” will is a “last will and testament.” This estate planning tool covers mostly decisions about your property, your beneficiaries, and your inheritance. On the other hand, a living will covers only subjects related to preferences about healthcare decisions. These are called “living” wills because they can be very useful while you’re still alive. On the other hand, a “last” will only goes into effect when you pass away. 

What can I do with a living will?

You can state your preferences for many future medical treatments with a living will. Perhaps most importantly, you can decide when and how you’d like to pass away. For example, you can state when you’d like doctors and your family members to “pull the plug,” so to speak. You can also state which treatments you’d like to refuse, perhaps due to religious objections. Another popular subject in living wills is organ donation, and you can decide ahead of time whether certain organs will be donated when you pass away. 

What can’t I do with a living will?

It’s important to understand that living wills have certain limitations. Living wills do not allow you to request certain treatments ahead of time. You can only refuse treatments if you face a life-or-death situation. In addition, you cannot refuse care for pain relief with a living will, and you cannot refuse food or drink. A living cannot nominate someone to make decisions on your behalf, and it cannot provide help if you wish to commit assisted suicide. Finally, living wills cannot help you refuse treatment for mental health conditions. 

You might be wondering why these limitations are in place. It mostly has to do with the legal and ethical obligations of medical professionals – including the age-old tenant: “Do no harm.” Writing down that you’d like to refuse pain relief is one thing, but forcing someone else to put you in a painful situation can violate their Hippocratic Oath. Furthermore, medical professionals are most qualified to make decisions about your healthcare. Even if you request a certain treatment ahead of time, a doctor might not agree that this is the right choice. 

What happens if I don’t get a living will?

If you do not get a living will, you will be unable to communicate your wishes if you ever become incapacitated. There are several ways in which this might happen. You might fall into a coma, or you might be placed in a medically-induced coma. You might suffer some kind of brain injury that puts you in a vegetative state. You might be anesthetized at a time when doctors must make quick decisions about your medical treatment. If they cannot consult you about these decisions and there is no living will available, they will simply choose the option that seems best.